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This is more of a rant than a question but whatever, I need your opinions anyway.

Do any of you ever get tired of being the "always-there friend"? I don't mean clingy. Like, you're always there for your friends-- whenever they have a problem, need someone to talk to, to hang out with, whatever, you're always there for them. And I'm fine with that. But whenever I make a really good friend, they find a better one, more fun, more something, whatever, and hang out with them, until the new best friend either makes a new best friend themself or can't make plans on a weekend, THEN I'm called. Usually they get tired of the new friend in a few months, maybe a little longer, and come back to me, realizing eventually that I'm a better friend. But its still hard, you know? Like, am I second-rate or something?

I guess its kind of a compliment because I'm like family to them, I'll always be there, and they can say anything or do anything (well, mostly, lol, I'm thinking brother-sister fights) and I'll still love them. But still... I'm a human too, I'm not just here for your convenience.

This happens / happened with ALL my close friends. All of them.

Anyone else want to rant with me about how this happens to them... or if anyone wants to give me some advice on how to regain my status as first-rate human I'd appreciate it. :]

Wow, thats how it is with me too! and i JUST decided to do somthing abuot it , when people decide to just use me when they are having a bad day, But arent there for Me, or ditcch me , but then still want to hang outt when its convenient for them HA, well they got the bitch side of me :) told em how i feel, and they denyed it, well then you arent my freind, never reay were, and they are dropped! trust me they are not even worth it! .. hm maybe al us used people should become friends lol, atleast we know we would be there for eachother WELL
if you ever wanna rant !.
Email me Rebelbabie696@hotmail.com
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(Rating: 5) Thanks, I know this question is old but this is happening to me again and I needed to reread my answers for assurance :) thank you.
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