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This might be long:
14/f
So a couple of weeks ago, this guy that i know and that i used to mess around with took y virginity.
i wasnt really planning on it, but it happend.
and the time before that one that we were going to have sex, he told me that he wasnt the type of guy that sexs girls and stops talking to them.... well thats exacly what he did. we stoped talking ):
i talked to him like 2 days after we had sex, and he told me everything was str8 and that he wants to be friends and what not... and now everytime i text him or call him he doesnt answer.
i know i should just forget it and him and just leave him alone, but i cant. i find myself thinking about him ALL the time and wishing i could just see him.
advice? PLEASE!!!!
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Hey girl,
Look I'm going to talk to you like the lady you are, because having sex is an adult thing, and since you have experienced it I hope what I have to say will help! First let me tell you the guy you had sex with was anxious enough before you had sex with him, and now feels as if things went exactly his way!!!!! But that is where the role reversal takes place :) What you need to do is act like it never happened ok, next when you see him act like you don't even know he exists, Next step it up on you dress skills (come with a basic professional look, you do want to appear more mature, and not desperate!!!) Last but not least know one thing honey WOMEN RULE THE SEX DEPARTMENT JUST BECAUSE WE HAVE THE PACKAGE!! MEN WANT. POINT BLANK. And the next time you decide to have sex, whether or not it is with this guy or someone else....... take a minute and think about how you are in control and no one can take that from you!!!!!!!! That guy will wish he didn't act like it was an accomplishment, but an honor to have a clean woman 2 b with. Trust Me things will change once you change for you!!!!!!
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your are veryyyy good at giving advice! thankssss :] seriouslyyy, that was great!!!!
i hope you dont mind if i ask you questions, lol. :D
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