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Brandi_S
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Recently, my friend's life just got a whole lot better. Everything is "perfect" now. Honestly, it is her year. At first I was jealous, but to be a good friend, her needs definitely go before mine. I'd rather be a good person, and squash my envy, than to lose a good friend.
Anyways, as a result of her "perfect" life, there is nothing to talk about. Nothing at all. We've already talked about all the "sweet" things her boyfriend says to her. The fact that he's going to give her her first kiss on her sixteenth birthday. The fact that her dad is throwing her a killer party. The fact that her grades are awesome, and she's winning so many awards.
There's just nothing to talk about. She doesn't call as much. Doesn't ask about me, how I'm doing or anything.
I'm just shocked. We had such a strong friendship. She (used to, anyways) claim that I am the reason she is her life is in order now, because I listened to her and helped her through all the hard times.
Can I save this? Does it even need saving? Is it worth it? (link)
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I think that your friend is just just overwhelmed with how good her life is right now. She most definitely cares about you, but it's just the excitement, you know? You can just tell her that you feel more distant, even though you're happy for her. If you take the time to sit her down, she will slow down. I wouldn't want to risk a friendship.
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The thing is, we have talked about it, twice. And after we did, she apologized and said "What was I thinking? You're my best friend!"
And then promptly after, her behavior got even worse, honestly. She leaves me text messages like "Hey gurl, what's up?", you know, the impersonal kind. Stuff like that.
I remember a few weeks ago, I got annoyed, and just ignored her, and she didn't say a thing, or ask about it. Didn't even notice.
Idk.
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