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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!
-E!
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Never in my life will I do this again.
I'm making a very long story short.
-i needed a ride home from a party
-friend said he could and wanted to hang out anyways
-got n car @ 2am. Said I had 2 b home at 230
-we didn't kno where to go... drove around to big houses n hills
-i said to turn around. He finally did.
>turned off engine.
>grabbed me ( you know when u watch movies and the girl gets raped? Well I always think, 'o why doesn't she jus play it off so he doesn't get mad?' well I did!) tried to kiss me I kissed him back after saying no.
>shoved my hand on his thing through his pants.
>shoved his hand on my private part.
[This still occured even though I kept saying NO. He kept saying ITS OK.]
>finally stopped n kept drivin
-drives a different way to this place to view the city.
-pulls over.
>grabs me across his lap, puts his tonge down my throat.
>tried to get up. He pulled me back down. And tried to kiss me again. I finally got up & said we gotta go home!
-on ride home we act like nothing happened.
-drops me off. Done.
I don't know if I should tell him how I feel? Ignore it? Act like it never happend?
I never want to see him again. But I have to because we go to the same school.
I'm not that type of girl AT all. I'm a virgin, but most people don't think so. Maybe he didn't? I can't believe he thought I would do that. I can't believe he did that to me.
I personally, disagree with the last answer. Weather or not his guy is your friend, what he did was wrong. IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT!! i can't stress that enough. you didn't do anything. and since when did a kiss hurt anyone?! i think that you should talk to someone about it maybe a school counsler or parent or friend. its not like you did anything wrong, you just needed a rise home.
don't act like nothing happened because thats what he wants. if you were to go to the authorities he would get in serious trouble. because if you hadn't have done what you did, you could have been the next victim of rape. I strongly suggest going and talking with someone. it sounds like you NEED to talk to someone. and i do not advise ever assosiating with this boy again, he may think you changed your mind
hope i helped
-E
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! Yes, I've talked to my friends but they can't really help because they've never been in this situation. My cousin doesn't really know either. I'll try my counselor. Its crazy because I see these girls who are victims and think no way is it their fault! I can't believe I thought it was. Not anymore. Thank you so much!