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Ok so my boy friend Dylan is really a great guy and I really do like him...The thing is that i don't have those "butterfly's" any more about him now all he does it piss me off all the time and what really makes me mad is that he said that he doesn't care if I'm mad because it doesn't effect him and he just treats me like crap all the time and I really do lie him I just feel like he is using me for sex.... like we haven't done anything yet but he is always wanting to make out and he is always hinting about it but I pretend that I don't know what he is talking about... like he said that "we are going to have fun when we turn 16...." and that "hopefully I want to too or will accept".... "but he has to wait until I'm 16 because that is what his dad said" and I turn 16 this month on the 20th and I don't know if I'm ready to have sex yet.... and I have a feeling that if he doesn't get what he wants from me that he is going to leave me..... well I talked to my best friend about this and we decided that I should deny him if he tries anything once I turn 16 and to see if that is all he wants from me..... but it makes me sad if that is all he wants because we have been dating for like 4 months now.... but yeah so like I don't really know what to do... so help me and give me your opinion on all of this.... (link)
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I'm sorry hun, but from what you are telling me, it sounds like the only reason he's been waiting around for you for so long is so he can have sex with you.
If he doesn't get what he wants from you, you shouldn't be sad if he leaves you. I mean, the guy is using you! If you don't want to lose your virginity you DON'T HAVE TO! You will definitely regret it. When you meet the one, you'll know. It's not something you have to debate about.
Also, if he doesn't care about your feelings, that means he doesn't care about YOU. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't care about you???
Dump the guy and move on. Go with your first instincts, if you think he's using you, then he probably is.
Good luck girl!!!
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Rating: 5
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Thanx so much I think this information will really help me! thanx =D
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