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Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!
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ok. my bf and i recentllly broke up. I don't like hurting him, but I had to. But he promised me he would never date the chick he is now. I think he's doing it to make me jelous. What do you think? I meaan, I GREATLY appriciate the girl coming to me asking my opion, and I told her to go for it. Then I said no, cuz he would hurt her like he did me. ( this guy grabbed me by the throght, very aggresive, and is now threatining to hurt me and my best friend.) So OF COURSE I don't want her going out with him. I mean HELLO! Domestic violence!!! Not to mention, I lost my virginity to this guy. Bu I mean, one of my friends told me, that, I moved on, he can to. So I told his new gf, go for it. So she did. Then I herd that he was ganna hurt me and my friend ( trust me, I have a good enough reason to belive it). So I told her, cause I don't want them to break up, and for him to go psyco on her. ( he's done it to more than one ex gf.) ( which te''s you what?) So how do I help her, and more importantly, how do I transfer some of that jelousy into love for my new bf? Cause last night we just said I love you, and it's really hard ya kno? I don't know what to do.
I think that the only thing you can really do for this girl is just tell her what happened to you and what he did to you. maybe even go to the counsler. if she decides to stay with him...then oh well. you tried and you can't do anything more. as for you moving on if you really care for the guy your with now, maybe you guys should have sex so you feel more connected with him. also just stop caring about you ex. just be like whatever when you see him. pay more attention to your new boyfriend and show him that you care a lot about him. all you really can do to like your current boyfriend is to just spend time with him.
Also, you guys may want to spend more 1 on 1 time so you can connect without having outher people their to say don't say that or w/e. Maybe, tell him a secret so you guys know something about each other that no one else knows.
good luck
hope i helped!
-E
(Rating: 5) thanks sooo much. I appriciate that. And it's the est advice i've gotten. it gives me a little more confidence to copw with this. thank you.