Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 19 months... he has liked his ex. and my best frends before.. while we were going out. but i forgave him casue we have been through alot.. it yeah we love eachother.. but a while ago i had a ONE day thing for this kid.. it was stupid and nothing.. he found out.. it took a while for him to belive me but he did.. and things were amazing. we just stopped fighting and everything was good. i completly stopped talking to the guy.. he never stopped talking to any of his girls and i dont have one guy i talk to.. hes kinda jelilous..lol ok so now the SAME ex girlfrien he had a thing for told him that when i liked this guy we kissed. witch DIIIIIIIIIID NOT HAPPEN.. but he would rather belive her than me.. i love him and wanna be with him so how do i get him to belive me.. he already called the guy and he said he didnt.. but he still dos not belive me..
what do i do..? (link)
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He obviously has trust issues!! He either doesn't trust you or he is using this as an excuse to get back with his ex.
Either way, if he believes his ex, I would be absolutely furious!!! He should have no reason to believe her. They broke up for a reason and if their not over each other he shouldn't have formed a relationship with you!
Second, he's probably hurt from what he heard. I mean if you were told that about your boyfriend, of course your going to ask questions. You might not think you wont but you will!
Third, you need to talk to him. Ask him if he trusts you! If he says yes then there shouldn't be anything to worry about, you two should be able to get on with your lives. If he says no, then I think it's time to find someone else. You can't have a relationship without trust!!
Obviosuly you trust him a lot if he is getting around with his ex girlfriend!
Hope I helped! :)
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Yeah but the fact is. like a week before someone told me he cheated on me with that same ex. i knew he would never do that and yeah i got really mad but when i asked him about it i completly belived him and i dropped it. if i did that for him why cant he do that for me. i dont know. he tells me he doesnt trust me. but whatever thank you so much for your help!
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