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Q: hi, my best friends brother told me about a month ago that he wanted to do "stuff" with me because he thinks im pretty cute and he knows i want him to because my friend tells him the little comments i make such as i was gonna jump out of his birhtday cake and stuff like that. well i told him no because i was nervous because im a virgin but ive pretty much lived at her house for the past 5 days and now i do want him and i dont know how to approach him cuz he told me after i said no that it was a one time offer. hes 4 years older then me but i dont really care about that
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It is a one time offer?! He just wants to "hit it and quit it." Do you really want to lose your virginity to someone who will take it from you and than want nothing more to do with you? Wait to lose your virginity to someone who you care about, someone who you know cares for you in return, and someone you share a plan for the future with. If you want to kiss him, I don't reject, but keep in mind he will want to go further. Getting involved with him strictly as friends with benefits could really hurt you in the end. You could wind up wanting a relationship and he won't, or you could find out he is doing things with other girls since he is not committed to you and that will not feel good. Plus you are nervous to do something with him. This is your mind and body's way of telling you that you are not ready to do anything with this guy. Please think about this.
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he doesnt wanna hit it and quit it he wants to hit it and hit it and hit it...
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My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow
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Website: Gender: Female Location: New York Age: 17 Member Since: April 4, 2007 Answers: 116 Last Update: March 26, 2008 Visitors: 10608
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