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Q: I've been with my boyfriend since the beginning of January. He's the first serious guy I've been with. Gosh I love him so much. He's a sophomore, I'm a junior. He told me he is leaving in July to finish high school in a city 2.5 hours away. He said that finishing high school there would earn him a 2 year associate's degree along the way (it's a special program). I couldn't take it. I told him if he's sure he is leaving, I don't want to see him anymore. I don't want him getting my hopes up with "I love you"'s and kissing. He's basically leaving my life forever in a few short months.

Someone please help me. I'm very sad about this because I love him SO much and he doesn't seem to care! *tear*

If you love him like you say you do you wouldnt have givin that ultimatum. Do you not think that your relationship could survive a short distance of 2 and a half hours? Or did he say he isnt ever coming back? Becuase if he said he isnt ever coming back then yes it may be good to leave him. But How do you love someone after two months?

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