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ok. im 16 years old living with overprotected parents. im the type of teenager that does real good in school & never gets into any type of trouble. im the nicest girl you will ever meet. but when it comes to going out with friends & things like that im not allowed to. [im not interested in any guys at this point either.] i get everything i want, but that. i tried & tried talking to my parents about it but they never listen to me. all they do is ignore me or do whatever they can to do to not talk about it. i mean im not the type to go out & drink & do drugs. i have too much ahead of me to ruin that. but theres times where i think of running away & doing whatever i want. i just want to b happy like the rest of my friends. they take pictures & i see how much fun im missing out on. i mean its my life & i dont like having my parents telling my how to live it. sometimes i think of giving up but thats not me at all. not only that, it affects me in every way! the last place i would ever want to be is at home. i rather be at school where i dont have to fight or argue with the ones i love. basically i love my friends more than my parents. my question is what should i do with this situation of being overprotected? [help plz.] (link)
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Well.
i know what type of situation your in, and it sounds to me like your just tired of being kept in line by your parents so much. You sound like an amaazing girl and you have a lot ahead of you =D its great. But i know how seeing your friends going out having a fun time, taking pictures, and sometimes just being wild might get to you. You can be like that to, without getting into trouble and going out and drinking! You can go out on weekends with your friends and be in those pictures and just laugh with them. Now getting through to your parents may take time, there just being over protective because your there little girl still. You can always try to take the time with them and tell them you need to live a somewhat normal social life. That your not going to hide things from them and you'll still keep them filled in on life. Ask them for a little freedom, prove to them you can still do good in school while having a social life! I know you think you love your friends more than your parents, but the thing is, your parents are always gonna be the one's to back you up in the end.
if you need anything, keep in touch!
=D hope i helped.
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well thanx alot.
i apreciate it. :)
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