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14/f..HELP ME!!!
i went out with this guy, last may then in august i dupted him because he started to like my best friend (ex-bestfriend now). i really loved him but he cheated on me so i hate him, but everytime i try to forget about him, he text me then i have all these feelings for him again, then we start going back out again on and off. he barely talks to me. it seems like he only text me because he wants to do "stuff" with me. and i really try to get over him but it seems like i cant. HOW CAN I GET OVER HIM?? (link)
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You have to set "YOU" as number 1 in your mind, before you can try to move on.
I know how you're feeling, but you'll get over it. It just takes enough confidence and will power.
Keep in mind that if he's communicating with you for 1 thing, and 1 thing only, let him and the whole situation go. You don't deserve to be used.
That's not fair to you or anyone else.
You should ask for his thoughts if the tables were turned around, and he was feeling the way you feel, right now. He wouldn't like it, that I know.
Occupy your mind with other thoughts.
Go out with friends, watch movies, even curl up in bed and read a good book.
It takes time, but trust me, you'll get over him before you know it, and you may meet someone new.
But it all starts as soon as you stop responding to his text messages. Let him know you've moved on, and for him not to speak, call, text, or anything again.
He is only a distraction in your life.
Good Luck!
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