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ok i really want to tease my boyfriend and act all sexy and get him really turned on and excited. we both agreed no sex we dont even want to go to 3rd. actually we havent gone to 2nd but gotten reeeally close. we have had dry sex though. the last time we hung out we had dry sex a couple times and made out A LOT and he put his hands up my shirt right under my bra and kept asking to take my shirt off but i said no. he was really turned on tho and even had really red cheeks! so to make him happy and get him excited i want some more ideas for that. he knows we arent gonne go to 3rd or have sex so im not like being mean or anything. he likes it when i do sexy things. also i dont feel comfortable doing like a stripped dance for him or rubbing him 'down there' but i am cool with some sort of game if anyone has one. thanks so much and i will rate!! :] (link)
You don't say how old you are, or how old your boyfriend is, but i'm assuming that you're in high school.

I'm going to tell you right now: This is a bad idea. Even the nicest guy will get pushed beyond the limits if you tease him. If you're really serious about not having sex with him, then it's just mean to tempt him. I firmly believe that NO woman deserved to be raped, but honey, you are waving a red flag in front of a bull. If you care about this guy, then just cut it out. If you're not ready, then tell him so, and leave him alone!


Rating: 5
he doesnt want sex either and says no matter what he would never cave in and have sex(at least not now the possibility goes up when hes engaged). he is determined that i couldnt even get him to go to 3rd! thanks anyway




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