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The names Maeghan. Yeap, I spell it weird.I'll admit it; I'm young, inexpirenced, and I make mistakes pretty much everyday. But I learn quickly and try to not to put myself in the same positions the next time around.
Though, I'm a terrible speller and that will never change.
I'm single and actually very happy with it. I've gained independance and a sense of being my own person because of being single and getting out of a bad relationship.
Ask my about anything & I'll try to help as much as I can! :)
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okay so about three weeks ago i broke up with my boyfriend. we had been going out for 4 months [yes, i know that's not really a very long time] but i honestly was in love with him. i had never felt the way i felt with him with anyone else i had ever dated. he is also the first guy i had sex with. which makes it even harder. the last time i saw him & talked to him was on valentines day when we went to the movies. the bad part is, at the movies we ended up making out and everything. he was even walking around holding my hand like we were still going out. ive always told myself that i wouldnt be in a friends with benefits type relationship; because that isnt something i would want to do. since 2/14 i havent talked to him [called, texted, or seen him] at all. i feel beside myself. i dont go out with my friends anywhere anymore because they all think im a slut when they found out about i had sex with him. i really feel like i want to call him but i dont know if i should. maybe the best thing for us both to do is not to talk, but i honestly feel like i cant let him go. should i try and work things out? HELP ME PLEASE.
You sound just like me when me and my ex brokeup, its so tough dealing isn't it? :/ I don't know why you two broke up so it so I can't exactly say if you should/shouldn't hang around him but I can try. If you think that you two might end up back together, I would say hanging out is okay. But if something drastic happened that made you break up with him (Cheating, he has personality flaws, etc.) I would suggest staying farrr away. Hanging out with someone you know you could never be with again/it would cause you trouble is never a good idea. If you think he's worth it, I would give a relationship another try because you seem to really like him. As far as your friends, don't listen to them. They have no room to judge you and if they are your true friends they should understand you really care for this guy.
(Rating: 5) youre right. they arent my real friends.i think im just going to try & work things out with him because there wasnt any drastic reason we broke up. i still really love him, and im gonna try to make our relationship okay again: whether its friends or boyfriend/girlfriend. i think i need to see how he feels about it too.