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ok there is this guy named S and he wanted to get to know me. so we talk sometimes. he really likes me.we are going to the movies with his friends and my friends.he is nice and funny. But i have had a crush on his best friend for years. i really want to get to know his friend. but the only way i will talk to his friend is by him. I really want to get to know his friend and maybe go out with him. i don't want to break S's heart but i want to go out with his friend. that would be kind of mean. how do i tell S that i like him as a friend and get to know his friend? also do you think it will be mean to go out with his best friend?
i dont think you necessarily need to tell S that you like his best friend...but you do need to make sure that S knows you only think of him as a friend, which means no flirting with S or leading him on or anything like that! as long as he knows that you two are strictly friends...then really he shouldnt have a problem with you wanting to date his best friend... i mean,you cant help how you feel... good luck
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice!