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im unsatisfied with my life right now. i recently had a breakup with a pretty long relationship. he moved on fast. i want to move on. ive been thinking a lot and finding myself despirately wanting another relationship thats even more amazing. i keep thinking about it. i know it doesnt just come that easily. i feel like i wont be happy until i have a great relationship like my last. then again, every opportunity i have had since the breakup, i denied it. i cant fall for anyone else other than my ex. it just doesnt feel right and ive been wanting a relationship that feels perfect. i dont like my friends. i dont like where i live every guy in my school is gross/asshole. how can i be happy again? how can i distract myself from this thought? how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?
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Time for some ME time. I know it's hard being lonely, but you need to figure out what makes you happy WITHOUT guys. Join a club, or a church, or any kind of group that you're interested in--music, books, gardening--whatever--or better yet, volunteer to help people who need help in your community. It might seem lame at first, but when you expose yourself to people who you don't know, and really LISTEN, you can come away with some pretty amazing knowledge. Get yourself busy with other things, and the right guy will show up, eventually. But don't make your happiness about someone else...you have to find that within yourself. Corny, but true.
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