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"The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right".-Hannah Whitall Smith

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im unsatisfied with my life right now. i recently had a breakup with a pretty long relationship. he moved on fast. i want to move on. ive been thinking a lot and finding myself despirately wanting another relationship thats even more amazing. i keep thinking about it. i know it doesnt just come that easily. i feel like i wont be happy until i have a great relationship like my last. then again, every opportunity i have had since the breakup, i denied it. i cant fall for anyone else other than my ex. it just doesnt feel right and ive been wanting a relationship that feels perfect. i dont like my friends. i dont like where i live every guy in my school is gross/asshole. how can i be happy again? how can i distract myself from this thought? how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?

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To answer your questions:
1.how can i be happy again? ]
The only way to be happy again is if you let yourself be happy. stop thinking about your ex

2.how can i distract myself from this thought?
Find a guy who YOU like and if you don't find one right away that's fine trust me. Here is one thing you can do. Go to your room and get rid of everything that reminds you of him.

3.how can i find someone new if i dont like the people who i know?
You have to give everyone a chance as my mom use to tell em you can't judge a book by it's cover. What that means is even if the guy doesn't seen hot enough or nice enough or sweet enough chances are that he is just nervous because he really like you.

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(Rating: 4) thanks for putting in time to give me advice

1.i just cant keep myself from thinking about him. i got rid of all of the stuff already. that doesnt stop me from thinking about him.
2. its hard to give people a chance when nobody gives me a chance.


but thanks anyway. i appretiate the help.
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