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Gender: Female
Location: minnesota
Age: 17
Member Since: May 28, 2006
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Last Update: June 28, 2009
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I'm 18. I'm not sexually active but I would like to be and I think it would make relationships a hell of a lot easier. The only problem is that i'm really afraid of the result....meaning....the pain and initial hymen-popping and whatnot. I've done everything sexual other than sex but I have NOT been fingered nor have I fingered myself or used a tampon. I'm uncomfortable with anything being inside. I'm worried that this will make sex completely unattainable.

Is there any way I can "train" my vagina to be a bit looser? Anything! (link)
okay my initial thoughts..

HOW could sex make a relationship easier?! it brings a whole lot more dangers, risks, emotional problems, etc.

and it doesn't seem like you're ready to be active at ALL..it's almost like you're trying to just convince yourself that you are. if you've never used a tampon, i don't think you should be having sex.


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Sex could make MY relationship easier. I've been involved with my boyfriend for over a year. We're both adults. I want to have sex with him, but i'm afraid of the pain. Not the "EMOTIONAL" pain. Tampons have nothing to do with having sex, they are a personal preference, and I prefer not to put a plastic plug up my vagina to stop a natural process, thanks.




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