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I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance?
my opinion, you've been with him a month and two weeks too long. you clearly have a good head on your shoulders and know right from wrong and i give you a lot of credit for not changing for a guy, so many girls would have just gave in to please their boyfriend, but that shows that you have some respect for yourself; so do yourself a favor and breakup with him. your a good, head-strong girl, you deserve so much better than him. you need someone who likes you for you and wont use you for sexual purposes. when your in a reletionship with someone they should make you feel good about yourself not upset you because your consently feeling as if you aren't good enough. there are plenty of guys out there and belive it or not they aren't ALL assholes. so goodluck with this one, but im sure if you stay true to yourself and stick to your moral values you'll be just fine.
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Thank youuuu! Detailed, veryy good advice :D
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