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Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month and its kinda a long distance thing and he wants to see "pictures" of me and wants me to send them through texting... im not really comfortable with that but he gets upset what should i do :/
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If the pictures involve nudity, I feel that is too early in a relationship to engage in that kind of behavior. Besides that point, if you are not comfortable doing something, then don't do it. Your boyfriend should not be pressuring you to do something you do not want to do. He should respect your wishes, your feelings, your morals, you as a person and you as his girlfriend. Don't let him manipulate you into doing it, especially the famous ~if you love me, you will~ line. The truth is, if he loves you he'll wait. If he continues to pressure you, it is time to let him go as hard as it may be for you. You deserve someone who respects you. If I took it wrong and it is a normal picture of you (no nudity or explicit content) then I say why not? He already knows what you look like and appreciates your beauty. He should make you feel confident and beautiful. Him having respect for you still applies here but it is not an issue worth breaking up with him for. You may feel shy, but I don't think that is asking for much or asking for anything wrong. If he can call you his, he should be allowed to have a picture of you. You can have him send you a pick of himself first. I hope I helped. If you need anything else I'm here.
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My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow
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