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Q: what do i do if i like a guy and he is a player. i hear him talking bout how he just made out with a girl just because he was bored and then that he moved on and went to another girl after girl even though some of them had boyfriends. i getting to know him really well and i really like him. i mean i can't help how i feel about him even though i know it is bad to like him. i just don't know what to do!! help please!! thanks in advance
I know this will sound strange.

But underneath that ''player'' there could be an honest and genuine person, guys often do that as they think its their way of making their mark in the world, and proving to the other guys they are bigger and stronger, even if the guy looks like the type of stereotypical ''player'' its not always the case...

He could be lying about everything to do with the sleeping with girls for the fun of it as you say.

Perhaps try spending some time with this guy on his own or texting him or anything that would contact him in a way where he cannot show you up in front of his mates and in a way that you can see the person he could really be.

Good luck and let me know how it goes. Rememberm dont always judge a book by its cover! Marizzle

i know..taht is what i do and that is why i like him so much. But my friends don't think it is a good idea to go out with him because of it, they don't want me to get hurt and this would be like my first bf and first kiss and everything so they don't wnat me to ruin it! what u say makes since and thanks..it helps..but i still don't know what to do!!

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Im just under 6'0, Im a model, I enjoy horse riding, figure skating, and shopping :)

I have blonde hair, blue eyes & Im a slim build.

Im your average teenager who has suffered the same as any other teenage and much more, or maybe much less compared to some :)

Ill give you my answer as I feel is correct, if its a question I have familiarity with then you will get an answer which I find best suited :)

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