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Ok there is this guy who really likes me and wants to get to know me. I am not really interested in to him but I would like to be just friends. But when I am just friends with a guy who likes me, I always flirt. And I can't help it. I don't know when I flirt and when I want to I don't. It is just how I am. The guy always thinks I like him so then he asks me out and I say no cause I want to be just friends. So they are confuesed. But this guy is nice and funny but I want to be just friends. I know I will flirt but how do I get him to know I just want to be friends but without huring his feelings and stuff? (link)
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I'm sorry to tell you this but the only way you will make your point of wanting to be just friends is to stop flirting! Everytime you flirt, you are sending him the wrong signals, and as long as you keep doing that, he won't know what to think. In other words, he won't want to believe you want to be just friends with him if you keep flirting. I don't know what else to say it other than you need to control your flirting no matter how hard it may be to do! I hope everything works out, good luck!
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