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my names amanda im 17 years old & i like to help people out (:

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2 years ago i went out with this guy for 5months and after 5months i lost the "beginning relationship spark" but i thought i didn't like him anymore but i knew i still loved him. anyway i didn't know what i was feeling and i broke up with him. he was my first love and i was his. not too long after we broke up he got a new girlfriend and has been with her ever since but now two years later i miss him ALOT. last night i was crying hysterically. like screaming crying because i missed him so much and i want him back. i havent cried over a guy...ever! just when we broke up. we started going out on the day before valentines day (today) so im not sure if valentines day is bringing these emotions but last valentines day i was fine without him. we've been texting for about 2 months now but not talking about me liking him. just boring conversations but now his phone broke so we havent talked in a week and i can't call his house, that would be wayyyy too akward. i did request him on myspace though last night so im hoping to talk to him on there. BUT, these feelings for him aren't going away and i havent felt like this or missed him in 2 years but now all of the sudden i can't remember why we broke up. i really really really want to tell him that i'm still in love with him but he's been going out with this other girl for almost 2years. i need to get this off my chest but even though i would rather him be with me than her, i don't think im quite mean enough to tell my ex i like him right before he celebrates valentines day with his girlfriend.

what the heck do i do about this???

i think, maybe he still has some interest in you if he was texting you back. i mean he has a girlfriend for 2 years, i think that girl would probably be a bit jealous that he was TEXTING you, his ex-gf. so if hes texting you for about 2 months, then hey thats a start :)
and since his phone died, when he accepts you on myspace, i think you should message him. dont strait up say I MISS YOU I LOVE YOU, because ehh that might be a little too straitforward, you dont want to scare him...
but just hint it. flirt a bit, and after talking for awhile, once you get a big more comfortable, and he gets a bit more comfortable with you, tell him you really do miss him..
also when you talk to him, ask him questions about the relationship hes in. if he really loves this girl or not. maybe hes just been waiting for you :D

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(Rating: 5) finally someone who is sane! one of my friends was saying how i should just tell him that i miss him and still love him and i was like "are you crazy? you can't just tell someone that out of nowhere!!" so yes i actually did what you said to do yesterday and we're now chatting online through myspace. we'll see where things go. a 5 for you! because great minds think alike!
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