Hello to all: I have been writing since the second grade and journaling since the fourth. My passion is helping others and those who know me come seeking advice. I have spent most of my life in school studying everything from metaphyscial studies to abnormal psychology to animal behavior. I have also survived things that most people don't go through in a lifetime, so the combonation of knowlede and experience has made me who I am today.
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Why is it that life always takes a dump on the nice guys and gives all the great shit to the assholes who dont deserve it? Im fed up with it, Im nothing but nice to people and i love being the nice, sweet guy, but why is it so hard to be happy? All these jerks get everything, why? Do i have to be an asshole to get what i want? Nice guys never get the girl... (link)
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I am sorry to hear that you are having such a bad time being the nice guy. Don't be so hard on yourself. I used to date back in high school - ten years ago - the guys who were more of the "bad boy" type. When I was nineteen, I married the ultimate bad boy. We had two beautiful kids...well, eight years later we were divorced and he is now serving a ten year prison sentence. I am now remarried - to a nice guy - and believe me when I say...where was he ten years ago? Keep being yourself, try and watch for others who would likely take advantage of your kindness. You have a right to put your foot down when this happens. As far as for the girls, well, eventually they will learn. I promise you that there is a girl out there who was made just for you, and when you find each other, the sun will seem brighter, the sky will look bluer, and you will end up with the girl. Don't direct yourself towards the wrong girl. Girls can be the most manipulative creatures - not all of us are like this - but, they are out there. Don't sell yourself short...if they don't like you for who you are...then screw them. You deserve to be happy just like everybody else...
My advice would be to be careful of those who you give your kindness to. Choose wisely and listen to your heart. You know yourself better than anyone else. Good luck Mr. Nice Guy.
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Thanks, for everything! Ill really try to listen to my heart, even though its been broken over and over again.
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