Hello to all: I have been writing since the second grade and journaling since the fourth. My passion is helping others and those who know me come seeking advice. I have spent most of my life in school studying everything from metaphyscial studies to abnormal psychology to animal behavior. I have also survived things that most people don't go through in a lifetime, so the combonation of knowlede and experience has made me who I am today.
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Hello...I am 14 and a guy... and I don’t know what to do...I haven’t had a girlfriend yet...which sucks...well I kind of did but we broke up like in a day...when we never really went out...but I'm not one of the most popular guys in school...but I guarantee that 99% of the people in my grade know my name...and I am kind of popular with the "not-so popular" girls...like I sit with 4 of them at lunch and they laugh at my jokes and sometimes I cant figure out what to say...so I just smile and nod but all of them are really close friends...I even think I talk to them more then I talk to my guy friends...and it would be weird asking one of my friends out...plus it took me like a month to ask that "not real" girlfriend I talked about earlier...and it turned out to be a joke...but like I cant go up to a girl and ask them out...I AM TERRIBLY SHY around girls and even if I did ask them out...I wouldn't know where to ask them to...what to get...what to do...what to say...I need to know what to do to get me to ask a girl and actually know what to do on the date...and if you’ve read this whole thing, I really appreciate it...thank you (link)
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Fourteen...what an awkward age to be dating. I don't think that there is anything wrong with being shy. You would surprised at how many girls out there that are just as shy. It sounds like you are a well rounded individual. This is a quality that women will appreciate about you when you are a little older. If there is a certain girl that you want to ask out...try asking her to a movie. "Hey, there is this movie that I really want to see, would you like to go and see it with me?" You may be surprised at your answers. If she says no, it is not the end of the world. All that means is that it wasn't meant to be. It means that the girl that does say yes, well, she is the one you will have a good time with. If you are already friends, then it should make it a little easier. Or, you could try and get together another couple - this sometimes makes the situation less awkward.
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