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I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half now. We're currently living together. We're both still virgins and that's not the problem. My guy... he's just not that affectionate and it's very discouraging to me. When he comes home from work, he won't even come and hug me or kiss me or say hello and it makes me feel sad, like he doesn't WANT to come see me and kiss me. When we go to bed at night, he's just like "good night" and that's it. Nothing more. I really don't think he's losing interest in me, because he's always sort-of been this way. Is there any way that I can encourage affection from him? Any ideas that'll make him want to come give me affection?

Please help! :]

Oh, I'm 18/F

well , break the routine a little. maybe get some concert tickets, suprise him like others said with his favorite food by candlelight, massage, sexy dress up, role playing, change it up, take him by suprise. videocameras, etc could be used for certain activities lol. just something different and sexy.

or just a change of pace in the routine. going out to dinner, seeing a movie, a concert, etc could do the trick. bake him his favorite dessert, before bed just rub his back and seduce him,

think back to when you guys were constantly at each other. was there a particular thing he would always like you to do sexually? if so, just go for it :) has he been wanting something pretty bad like a cd video game etc? if so, get it as a random gift and maybe spend the evening playing the game together

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