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Okay, so me and my boyfriend are going out for 7 months it will be our 8 month anniversary on February 27th. He is absolutely amazing and i am really in love with him. He literally is like the perfect boyfriend. but for a little while we had a period where we would like get "testy" with each other over everything, even jokes. but now we are okay is that normal in a long relationship like this?
(I'm 15 (almost 16 in september) and hes 17 (almost 18 in july) and we had sex for the first time at the end of our 6th month. it was Both of our first times if that helps at all.) (i was ready to do it, so please dont say i wasnt even if thats what you really think) (link)
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Relationships are just like roller coasters. They go up and down and up and down. When the two of you are feeling good and things seem to be going well, this is called the "hearts and flowers" phase. Every couple goes through this no matter how old you are. It's been a while since I have been in high school, however, I dated a guy for nearly four years in high school. Now, I am married with kids, (not to the same guy), and we go through our ups and downs. You are still very young - I know that no teenager likes to hear that - I sure didn't, but nonetheless it is true. It is very normal to go through times in a relationship where you will tend to get on each others nerves. Just remember that sex does complicate things, especially when you are only 16. There are many emotions attached, especially for a woman, when it comes to being intimate with someone. It is important to have open communication and to vent your frustrations with one another. It is actually very heathly to argue - as long as you do it the right way. Good luck - and congratulations on being in-love.
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