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Q: so theres this boy. over winter break i went to a party where i met him and i thought he was super cute but i thought my friend and him were interested in eachother so i didnt talk to him really. until later that night where he told me he didnt like her but for a friend. we immediately hit it off and we "hooked up" about 6 times over break and he was all about us hanging out like everyday. but i knew he just got out of a serious relationship so i wasnt pressuring anything. so after school start back we drifted. so i messaged him on myspace and asked what was up and he told me he felt it was best if we quit talking for no aparent reason. he didnt even want to be friends. so all the time, everyday he was ALL i thought about. until one day he messaged me and we started talking again. so i told him we should be "hookup friends" again and he said yes but we would just be like friends with benefits. i kinda feel like hes using me but i want to be with him so bad. even if it means just for sex. i know that sounds super bad but i really like him. and he was all about us "hooking up" again and now hes like blowing me off and being short with me. what do i do? i need some serious help here.
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OK, honestly, weather you realize it or not, the main reason you can't get him off your mind is because he blew you off. We always find the unreachable more desirable. Don't know why. I have been through this b4 & the minute you said, he told you he didn't want to talk anymore, I was mad. He is an ass. I know it's hard, but, delete him from your myspace & forget about him as quickly as you can. I mean even if he didn't want a relationship with you, there is no reason you two can't be friends right? So, why did he act like that? He's an ass! Plain & simple. Get rid of him. Don't give him the satisfaction of chasing him!
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thank you. this advice was extremely helpful.
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I am married and have 3 beautiful daughters. Their ages are 2, 6 & 11. I am not in any way saying I am an expert on life, but, I have been through a lot of different things, from...mental health issues, alcoholism to having a husband in Iraq. So, feel free to ask me anything you need help with & I will try to answer it the best I can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Latrobe, Pa Occupation: Counter Person Age: 30 AIM: Member Since: April 4, 2006 Answers: 46 Last Update: January 31, 2008 Visitors: 6482
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