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Q: Okay well my ex boyfriend and I broke up about a year ago but lately we have been flirting alot and I have told him I like him but he keeps telling me that he wants to be my..."best friend" (men) anyways so at a party he asked me to dance but I said no because he likes my best friend Taylor and I know she kind of likes him but she is in LOVE with another guy. So anyways I told him that I was over him and that I wanted to be his BFF, well lately we have been flirting even more but so are me and his best friend who is also hot. But I kinda like another guy. Well today he totally put his arm around me and I really liked it so I didn't tell him to stop but I don't know whether to take that as hey best bud or I want you back? Plus there's the problem with his best friend whi I am totally flirting with all the time, and the other other guy who is super hot, tall, but he is sum times really boring to talk to. So anyone who understood a word of that please help because I'm sooooo tired of getting hurt by boys.
If you really like the guy that says he wants to be you "best friend" then flirt with his guy bestfriend and if he gets jealous then you no for sure that he likes you! That what i would do. But if he doesnt get jealous then you know hes for real about the whole bestfriend thing. But sometimes putting an arm over the shoulder is a signal he is sending to the world that this girl is mine. So maybe he is a bit confused. And you seem a bit confused to so yea. Just see if he gets jealous when ur flirting with other guys. Thats the first step you should take. If he confronts you and ask why you are doing it then you know that he is TOTALLY jealous!!

lol that's the best advice I've heard so far thanks so much

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Hey im Charlene! Im 15. In highschool. I mainly just answer relationship questions/friendship questions. but i dable in other topics too. Im a pretty easy person to talk to, ive made tons of mistakes, but ive learned from them. So if u got a question ill probably be able to answer it.

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