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Q: Okay so, my friend does hooka. I know it's a drug, but it's legal if you are 19 or something...right? Well, she is 15 and her and some of her other friends went to the hooka bar. [never been there in my life cuz i'm not that kinda girl] She told me she wasn't gonna do it again, just a one time thing because she was curious...well, turns out she's doing it again next Saturday. And she was trying to entice me to do it, saying stuff like, "It was sooo relaxing, and it made you kinda dizzy. But then you went to the dancefloor and partied and everything, it was great!" and "you should try it, it would be cool of you." and I was just like..."nahh, I'm good." The I asked her if she was hooked on it, and she was like no...you can't get hooked on hooka. Is that true? [not that I am going to try it..ever.]
But now...you ahve to understand this, she has never been a druggie in her life! And she is now doing hooka, and she just told me that tomorrow she is trying weed. Like wtf, she is turning into a druggie, and I'm friends with some, so it's not like I'm against all of them, but why ruin your life? and why is she trying to get me to do all these drugs when I tell her NO?! I don't know why I'm mad at her, I feel betrayed, she said she wouldn't do that stuff, but next thing you know shes going to hooka bars and smoking weed. I need advice, I need SOMETHING, ANYTHING! comments or whatever would be great. thanks in super advance.
maybe she is just experimenting with these "drugs." i wouldnt be upset with her. i would just tell her that your 100% not interested in trying drugs with her bc you know what it does to your life and you dont want to get involved with it. tell her its best for her health if she not do things involving drugs and things she knows is wrong. drugs are a total no but weed and hooka are not as bad as it gets. if she starts doing worse drugs than those and you fear her life then let someone know to help her. possibly her parents. you may lose a friend for a while but eventually she will appriciate that she had a friend that was willing to help her. i hope everything works out and i hope that was some help. :)

ps. and if you lose a friend at least you know you cared. plus friends dont pressure friends into doing things they dont want to. she should accept that you want to stay clean.

wow your advice is the best. the other ones weren't so great. but thatnks soooooo much.

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