Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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I really like this guy rob. He is smart, funny, nice, sweet, cute, and he likes me too, i think. Whenever i see him he always comes up to me and talks to me, and is always trying to sit near me.
Then this guy Kenny moved here. He is one of those guys whos obnoxious and thinks everyone likes him. He spread a rumor that we hooked up and that we were friends with benefits.
Since that rumor started rob hasnt come up to me, or sat with me. I always sit with him and go oh my god i HATE kenny. I would never hook up with him, hes so ugly. I dont want to be fwb with him, and im not. But rob just gives me a dirty look. He hasnt hooked up with anyone, or even kissed anyone, and i never hooked up wiith anyone, but i have kissed a lot of guys.
What do i do? I am not the bold type who will go up and just kiss a guy. But idk what to do anymore! He just wont listen to me, and i am always flirting with him, but he just gets this sad look on his face, and i feel like i really hurt him. I really like him and want to hook up with huim but idk how i could, hes not talking to me!
Any advice helps! THanks! (link)
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Hey!
well, I think Kenny likes you. He's reverting back to the second grade style of flirting, where you piss a girl off and hope she notice you. And when you think about it, its working, he thinks he ruined your chances with Rob, but he didnt. Be careful how you respond to the situation. If kenny really does like you, then he could potentially get really hurt. I've been in this situation before and I feel really bad now, because my "kenny" was a really nice guy at heart, but I really hurt his feelings. So like I said, my moto is if you dont have something nice to say dont say anything at all. this will reduce the risk of his feelings getting hurt, or someone else being offended by what you say (what the other advicenator said) If you ignore him, then he will hopefully leave you alone. and if not, then try and talk to him about it. he may not admit that he likes you, but maybe he will stop if he sees whats happening to you.
I think you should try and pretend that rob not responding to your flirting doesnt bother you. Sometimes guys go through patches where they are just really hard to read, and if you just continue flirting and being nice, then hopefully he'll fix what ever is upsetting him and see taht you like him. On the other hand, you could always talk to him about it. see what he is thinking. maybe he doesnt even know you like him or something. guys can be really dumb sometimes lol.
If after a while nothing happens, I would suggest that you give up and move on, if you hurt him so much that he cant even talk to you about it, when you didnt do anything, then imagine what he'd be like if you actually did something wrong. thats just my opinion though. I hope that you get this all figured out, let me know if you need anything! Hope I helped,
love ya,
angie91
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