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Well i am 14/f, and i know im young but i think i am in love with this guy. His name is Chris, and hes 16. Well, we are like best friends. Hes always over my house, and im always over his. Well we about to cross the street, and it was night, we wanted pizza. Well a car went speeding past and he ran and pulled me back. We both got cuts and bruises, but he saved my life. And he was so worried he carried me home and stole his parents car and took me to the hospital. another time, i was locked out of my house, and he came and picked me up, and walked me to his house, I ended up sleeping over his house, in his bed with him. Well nothing happened, but we were cuddling. We have this thing that we get each other, and our families are so messed up, divorced and dead. But...he has a girlfriend, of 3 months, on and off. She is a whore and cheats on him but shes really attractive, and she has a hold over him. He tells me that he cant get over her and doesnt love her, and she hates me and curses me out, and i told her i love him and she punched me. He got so pissed and broke up with her but they got back together. What should i do? Tell him? or no? Thanks in advance

You should definitely tell him!
Life is short, and if you don't, you may end up looking back regretting not saying anything. Explain your feelings, and why you're feeling that way. In person would be prefferable, but if you have to do it through a note or something, make sure you talk to him afterwards.
It sounds like this guy REALLY cares about you, and if his girl friend is treating him like this, both of you shouldn't have to deal with it.
You two sound like you really understand each other, and should eventually end up together.

Best of luck!!!

XOXO
Kat!

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