Heya, I'm Ellie =]. Sure I'm your average Teenager! I believe in hard work, I believe in being optimistic and never giving up =]. I get pretty crazy sometimes, and I'm loud and not always Missus Perfect - but I'm outgoing and I generally stick to the rules... Unless I don't like them, In whcih Case, I may just invent my Own :)
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So i have this friend right. And were really good friends like best friends haha. and we talk everynight. i still like him and i know he kinda still likes me. I guess you can say were friends with "benefits" =/ anyways. he started ditching me and hes always leading me on and getting my hopes up. For example he finally texts me and hes like wanna talk tonight cutie? and im like UH YEA haha no im like sure i called him twice he never called back. I was up till 12:30 in the morning just waiting for him to call. I know that sounds desperate but i like him alot and i cant even picture him with anygirl. another example he was telling me on new years eve he met this one girl through his friends and shes our age and shes really pretty and she almost gave him a blowjob and she would do all this stuff with him. And how he was gonna give it a try with her. and how he wanted it to work. then a few minutes or a half hour later hes like oh my god i wanna be with you forever i love you. I just cant take it anymore. The pain of loosing him and listening to him talk about hooking up with 18 year olds (were both 15) and i just think it would be easier and less painful if i walk away before he leaves me for good. I just i cant do that its too hard. But im sick of him standing me up. i know "theres other fish in the see, youl get over him" but for the meantime what do you guys think i should do? thanks so much. (link)
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Haha - Oh dear it appears Im in exactly the same situation as you :) Oh dear :) I really sympathise with you as Im EXACTLY the same!! x] so Im going to help you and along the way, it mgiht help me too:)
So, I see youve had some suggestions just to stop giving it up to him... like the first, but I think we both know its too hard to do that :(. What I think we should do, because we care about them - is just discuss to them how we feel. Recently i wa svery upset and in a lot of trouble and he came through for me then - so, make sure he knows when youre upset, he might show you just how much he values you!
Other than that, I think you should also show him that your not dependant on him, because if he thinks that then hell think he can just take everything. Flirt with other people, make sure he talks to you first! When he texts you don't give him kisses on the end, and take a while to reply :)
I've done this and its beginning to work :)
Remember your best friends, thsi girl and him are not. You know his weaknesses, he knows you well, and this is your advantage :)
Good luck sweetie.Xx
Wow, well thats kinda scary x] when I saw your answer back I had just gotten the news that my attachment really wants to have sex with this ultra gorgeous latina girl x]. But at the same time, Im not going to worry too much and I dont think you should either. After all, they want us too! If he wants some cheap blow job from an 18 year old he probably doesn't even know properly thats fine - let him have his fun. Neither of us are gonna let go just because of a regulation hottie taking our man though, I don't think :). You are so much than just anal and blow job on legs, youre his mate! - He wants to 'hang' with you, that just goes to show that he likes you as a person, not just what you're doing with your mouth/hands, like this 18 yr old or whoever! x]! But he can't egt away with this scott free either :) what Im doing is like.. acting like I dont care. I wont text him, when he flirts with me ill just say good for you! If he calls you say yuo can'yt talk right now because you're with somebody else.. XD and if he acts worried, then it should show you that eh really cares about you :). If he doesn't then I think we should both think up a plan b:D to what to do with these problems :D hehe. My friend does this with her boyfriend all the time, and it works VERY well.
I think we should stop letting them have control, stop letting them play the mind games on us and play them back, and better :D
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Thanks so much your a freaking genious =)thanks and i hope everything works out for you and your guy!
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