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so my "best friend" of 3 years is amazing.
but when shes around anyone but me she sometimes ignores me.and its not like i need her all the time to be right there i mean.. its kinda hard to explain. and when she's around her boyfriend ooh man! she always flirts with our(yes our)ex and i do like him and i think she likes him too. but she says she doesnt and that she loves her new boyfriend and stuff; but idk. she just makes me so frustrated when she ignores me and stuff for guys. i mean ill always be here and they most likely wont. so how do i stay calm and not flipp out on her. i know its partly jealousy but still the other part of it is frustration.

You guys have been best friends for a longgg time. Keep that in mind and you are right, you will be therre longer than the guys will. Expressing your feelings is another great way. You can let her know that sometimes you feel she values guys over you and she ignores you at times when guys are around. You can talk to her without flipping out..hopefully she understands how you feel and will keep in mind that friends will always be there ! :)

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