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Q: okay me and my bf have more in common than different
but one of the big differences is he actually likes to talk about problems and i don't i hate talking things out. when ever we have a fight i get scared not that hes going to dump me but the fact thats hes going to want to talk about it so should change myself for that because i dont want to lose him
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Your man cares about you enough to deal with your lack of communication but communication is key to a relationship, along with trust which builds with communication. How do you guys solve your problems if you both don't talk bout how you feel to come up with a solution and to ensure the incident won't be repeated or feelings won't be hurt in the same way? Just leaving it and trying to forget bout it or wutever method you guys are using to adapt to you not being open, is not healthy. Everything will build up and you could very well lose him. You need to get over your fears about what you think he will say in response or what he will think about you once he hears your side. You need to be honest. There needs to be a middle where the both of you meet to fix the rough spots and overcome the obstacles of your relationship, in order to survive and make it last. You need to have the confidence that he will accept how you feel and not shame you for it. If you need anything else I'm here. Please work on it. It will make you guys stronger. Good luck.
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thank you you helped a lot and i will talk to him about this problem and if you really mean what you said i will let you know how it turned out again thank you
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My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow
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Website: Gender: Female Location: New York Age: 17 Member Since: April 4, 2007 Answers: 116 Last Update: March 26, 2008 Visitors: 10571
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