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Q: 16 f

So I just found out my best friend is bisexual . Ok bigg deal right? So why doesn't everyone else at my school see it the way I do? Today in school I sat with her during studies and heard people wispering all sorts of stuff and I overheared one person in perticular say "omg maybe that's her girlfriend" it just pisses me off how people are so sterolistic these days and judge one another for the stupidest stuff I hate drama I hate stress I try to avoid it everyday and now because of that once stupid person everyone is beginning to get the idea that I too am a bisexual and I certainly am not (not that there's anything wrong with being bisexual I'm just saying I wouldn't fitt under that category) and the last thing I want to do is avoid her or stop talking to her because I'm not that kind of person . How do I stop everyone from thinking this way without going to that last suggestion? Or how do I avoid all of this?

okay, first of all i really do not mean to sound like bitchy so just take that into consideration.

if you where really her friend you wouldnt care what people said, like you obviously care way to much about what people think of you, so what if people think stuff about you, you know its not true and thats all that matters, if you stop being friends with her it just shows that you are not a good friend and i do not see why anyone would be friends with you if your going to ditch best friend because of stupid rumors that arent even true, if you do get mad and stuff people will just talk more i mean i dont know i just think it is very ignorant of you if you do that, and then people will just talk more.

and if you really care all that much what people think of you be like honestly you people are immature to think that just because we are close friends means that we are lovers you are stupid. (not you the people) and be like i am not gay or bi, and i really dont care if you believe me but i know its the truth and if you people are really gunna waste time talking and making up rumors have fun cause your just immature.

sorry if that was bitchy, but its the truth.

Rating: 5

You weren't being bitchy and you have your right to your own opinion I didn't take it offensive in any way I don't think I'm a bad friend because if I was then I'd be asking for advice on how to stop being friends with her and that is not what im asking all I wanted was for to knock some sense into my head and that's exactly what you did and for this I thank you your right I shouldn't care what people have to say because people will be people and talk is cheap