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i have been going out with this guy for like 3 weeks now. and everytime he trys to french kiss me i freeze up. and go mmm noo. nott now. or something stupid like that. and i want to kiss him i really do. but i dont know why i freeze up like that. its like a reflex or something.
any idea whyy?
thankss in advance

I think the feeling of french kissing is new to you, and it probably feels weird and maybe even wrong? But really there isn't anything wrong and I don't agree with the people who said it's because you're not ready. There's no age for this- it's just what you personally prefer. I promise that if you go for it one day, when you personally choose to, and french kiss him, it'll feel way more natural from then on and you won't ever freeze up again. (: hope I helped
-avalon

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