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okay so this girl named jaslen is getting me mad she keeps on trying to steal my best friend erika & shes to nice that she goes along with it she cant say no. & they i got a pic comment from jaslen saying your to concieded i felt like screaming at her telling her that im not concieded im just prettier than herrrrr she cant get any guy! i wanted to scream and tell her the plain truth but i just wrote "no hun im not concieded trust me i would know / go get a life :)" & now im just waiting for a reply i dont mean to pick a fight with her but shes getting me madddddddd erika my best friend shes sleeping over her house again tonight and shes been selling me out a ton :/ can someone help me what do i do ?

You can't force anyone to be your friend nor can you force anyone not to be your friend. If Erika chooses to hang out with this girl, there is nthing you can do about that. If you are a good frined, don't ever defend that. Just be you, it is her loss if she chooses not to hang out with you.
Take the best part of you and move on to other friends. If Erika is your friend she will be there by your side.
Girls play one against the other, don't let yourself get wrapped up into that childish game. Be open and honest and never defend your actions if you feel you are in the right. And try not to put others down to make yourself look like the better person.
Believe me, rotten devious people ultimately end up with no friends.
Be strong and stand up for yourself.
Greeneyes8993

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(Rating: 5) thanx for everything i talked to her and things are back to normal :) lol im at her house as i type.
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