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okay so this girl named jaslen is getting me mad she keeps on trying to steal my best friend erika & shes to nice that she goes along with it she cant say no. & they i got a pic comment from jaslen saying your to concieded i felt like screaming at her telling her that im not concieded im just prettier than herrrrr she cant get any guy! i wanted to scream and tell her the plain truth but i just wrote "no hun im not concieded trust me i would know / go get a life :)" & now im just waiting for a reply i dont mean to pick a fight with her but shes getting me madddddddd erika my best friend shes sleeping over her house again tonight and shes been selling me out a ton :/ can someone help me what do i do ?
ok i know this isn't the most "mature" advice and really, you should probably just let erika be friends with whomever she wants, but girls can be vicious and if you really want your friend back you have to fight fire with fire
right now, don't make any comments about erika to jaslen, it will make you look like you're jealous and nobody should have that power over you. just tell that jaslen girl to back off and ignore her. when she insults you laugh it off, because it will make her even more mad if she knows she isn't getting to you.
then, find one of your closer friends, and hang out with her ALOT. get close with her, usually all you have to do is tell a girl a couple secrets about you and bam, you're best friends. soon erika will be jealous just like you are with her and jaslen, and erika will start to call you asking to hang out all the time and ditching jaslen.
it's kind of sneaky, but it works. getting mad just causes a bunch of drama and you usually don't end up looking that great, this way you come out getting what you want and smelling like roses ;)
good luck
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haha just what i was going to do but then she called me and i talked to her, things are back to normal & now im at her house and were going out tonight :) thanx for your help
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