Hi, I call myself Ignatz after Dan Herriman's character in the old "Krazy Kat" comic strip. I'm 44, father of 3, husband to one, crazy about music and books and food and movies and history and martial arts. I've had some wild and crazy times in my life, and I figure I might as well put in some of my perspective.
I promise not to talk down to anyone or make fun,and I promise not to BS anyone. If you're old enough to ask a frank question, you're old enough to get a frank answer. Oh, and if you ask me a question directly, please be patient. I'll get back to you as soon as I can. My life's a bit hectic. :-)
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14/f. i am just so confused latley and i dont no what to do or think or anything. i dont even no who i am anymore. okay so for some odd reason i am like so majorly attracted to gay guys. like i love them so much. i think it might be since my brother is gay so it made me appreciate them more? but i have no idea. so i went out with a gay guy and i new he was gay, but eventually since he was gay we broke up because he wasn't attracted to me in that way, obviously since i was a girl. so were friends now. but whenever i see a gay guy or anything my heart just skips a beat and i cant take my eyes off of them, even if their not all that cute. i dont no what to do and i dont no my problem. im not attracted to any other guys, at all. i'm not attracted to girls, so im not a lesbian, at least i think. is god trying to tell me something? i have no idea what to even think anymore! there is absolutley no other guy i am attracted to except if their gay. please, anything will help. thank you! (link)
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Here's my amateurish 2 cents:
Could it be that you're looking for a safe relationship with a man? Recalling my own teenage years, I wasn't exactly the most sensitive, refined fellow at 14. (Geez, I was a real knuckle-dragger.)
Possibly, you're looking for somebody who isn't going to act like a Neanderthal in public, who isn't going to look at other women, somebody who's reasonably sensitive and gentle and who isn't afraid to show emotions. Or I could be completely wrong. You might want to make a list of all the things you like in gay boys, and see what that reveals to you. Chances are, there are certain qualities you're looking for in a man, and it may take a while for the straight boys to develop them.
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