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i used to had a boyufriend we were together for 2 years and a half and afte r several things like him not being tolerant enough , and him criticising everything i do , wehre do i go , who do i talk to , my friends, family, my clothes, the things i like to do , and even the music i like to listen to ....this was a huge deal for me and i d ont want him back cause hes done kind of cheating things to me , but a part of me still wants him to be there, but i dont want him back! but when i notices he stops talking to me or things like this i always do something that give him like the hope we are getting back (oh cause he always try to make us be together again) the weird part ...is that a part of me knows that im better of without him, and hes not the one for me ......but the other part...still wants him to like me and being there like trying to get back and doing this kind of things =S that part doesn't want him to move on , i cant imagine seeing him with someone else or dating anyone else,,,but at the same time i dont want him to be with me!! pleaseee help!! this is killing me and im also hurting him cause one day i make him understand i still want to get back and the next day i tell him something like oh im glad we broke up its better off this way :S (link)
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girl , your better off by ending it now , just think if you did give him another chance . Would be change for you ? would be still treat you like you a baby ? probley not because he is who he is , even if he did say he would change there would still be a chance he doesnt ya know ? and you would just be in the situation alllll over again . but i understand you want to move on but then again you dont . But if you end it now and tell him that your final decision is to be just friends then it will be easier on you , because you'll eventually get over him and be back to normal with you . Tell him you still want him to be in your life , just not how close it use to be
- hope i help, tell me how everything goes .
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yeah i know what you mean i've gave him lots of chances and he goes back to the same way that makes me very upset like being very flirty with other people, i tell him i dont like it and i think he wouldn't like it either then he understands and goes like oh yea h your right please forgive me i will change this time :S ...then he like avoids that kind of things for a month or so ...and then again it happens ..
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