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i really want to have sex but imnervous about it because liek how does it happen ont he first time??? and dont say if ur too young u shouldnt do it because i am 19 years old its not like i'm 14....and i am too shy to ask my friends how it is like...plz help:S

i agree with you that you are old enough, but i dot beleive you should wait for someone who wont use you. lose it to someoen who loves you and who you love back, it will make it so much more special, you will feel much more relaxed, and you wont feel used or have the feeling like you wasted your virginity. so many girls of all ages write that they feel they got used or wasted their virginities, dont let that happen to you because it is probably a pretty bad feeling.

so back to your question. you ask how does it happen on your first time? well its diffeent for everyone. on a personal level, i waited until i felt completely ready after dating my current bf. I remember just feeling totally ready and comofortable about losing it, so the next day it kind of just happened and i persued it lol :)
yes, it will hurt the first time, but the level of pain varies woman to woman. good luck, and just keep in mind to not waste your virginity because once its gone, you dont get it back

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(Rating: 5) thank you:) i am definitely doing it with someone i love not some random guy!! lol. thanks again:)
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