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ok well i am turnign 19 in like 1 week and i have no breasts...like there is a tiny bump and thats it. i am, just wondering are they going to continue to grow because i am 19 with no breasts and it really blows away all my self esteem and it makes me not want to get close to a guy because i have none. i wear these fake things because i am so self concious....like what 19 year old has no breasts....i dont even want big ones...atleat an A cup would be nice though. It especially makes me not want to have sex because i wouldnt want any guy to see me naked. I am also a late bloomer though because i only started growing hair under my arms at 17 and i only got my period for the first time when i was 15 and i had a thyroid problem...so maybe that has something to do with it. But this no boobs thing is seriosuly starting to kill me! so my question is will they continue to grow?? i dont care if i have small boobs i just want some boobs....thanks.

i have friends who were late bloomers, and they wound up developing their female parts. Everyone has something they are self conscious about. You are uncomofortable with your breats, other girls are concerned about their body, etc. Usually girls with very small breasts are usually pretty skinny, so you wouldnt feel selfconscious about your body like someone like me would. My point is, i have a loving boyfriend and therefore im not afraid of him seeing me. When you meet a great guy, he wont care about your breasts and you will feel comfortable with him.
In the mean time you can ask these questions to your doctor, the thyroid issue could have something to do with it. Your docotr might have a suggestion to help you, but dont get so down on yoourself because almost everyone has something about themselves they feel uncomfortable about. The right guy you meet wont care, he will love you for who you are..its true :)

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