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Q: i'm 15, my bf is 14.

my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls.
i tried to ignore it for a while, but i just couldn't ignore it anymore.

so i told him that it annoyed me when he flirted with other girls, and especially in front of me. he said that he doesn't really think he is flirting with them, he just thinks he is being nice, or friendly or something.

i said that's ok but just don't go too far, you know.

the other day he told me he used to have crush on one of my friends.

she is pretty and popular and really nice. everyone else thinks this too, and i don't like that he used to like her.
this is because he still flirts with her, even when i am around.

he says that he doesn't like her anymore, but i just can't think that.

i think that because he always flirts with everyone else, that he doesn't really like me. he says that i am beautiful and that he loves me so much, but it doesn't feel like that....

i love him too, but sometimes it's just so frustrating...

can someone please help me how to deal with this
Your man should not be flirting with anyone else. That shows that he doesn't respect you and he cannot be trusted. You need to tell him how you feel and if he refuses to stop then he is refusing to be good to you. He shouldn't have any interest in flirting with anyone else or wanting the attention of any other girl. Its not something you should continue dealing with, its something that has to change.

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