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Q: hey everyone, i'd really appreciate your time and input, i'll keep it short :)
there's this sweet guy i've known for about a year now, he's not like other guys i've seen: he's a great listener, very observant, humble, and kind to everyone.
we've known each other for about a year now, and have the same group of friends, didn't know him that well then. but recently he's opened up a little. i've noticed he laughs a lot at my jokes, moreso than other people do, (and they're not all that funny). it could just be that he's nice. but just recently he started to touch my arm, gesture to me, get my attn. over little things and mentions my name a lot(i'm excluding some tidbits to shorten this). a lot of girls are attracted to him, and he's known our groups of friends(who are mostly girls) longer than he's known me, so i'm wondering what this new comfortableness means. and i just found out that he's going to europe and at the end of the trip he's going to spend 3 days in paris w/a girl from school who'll be there too(but she apparently has a bf). i don't know this girl, but my friend says he doesn't poke her or anything, but then who feels comfortable enough to go hang out w/a girl he's known only for 3 months in a diff. country?have i misinterpreted these signs, does he like her instead, and me as just a friend? please help!!! thank you!
ok this is what i think you should do
you should ask him out if you want to if he says no then hell probably stay friends with you since you said how nice he was and you should probably try to do it before he goes to Europe. If you find out that he likes the other girl then i guess yall could still be friends
hope i helped

hey thanks for the advice!!
the thing is i'm not sure i can ask him out: we were on the phone on friday and he's asking me what i'll be doing for the rest of the day, and my friend yells into the phone "he's asking you out!"..i didn't know what to say, but my friend takes the phone from him, and he says in the background "yeah you wish". i feel like he's sending mixed messages :/ we're all hanging out before he leaves, maybe something will come up then. thank you again!

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