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me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend.
so it went like it normally do. but when he had it in, it felt like he ''cumed'' so i kept saying take it out take it out i think you cumed and he was like no keep it in, it feels good, but i was like YOU CUMED and he said no i didnt i would know now lets keep going. now i was trusting him. so i kept going believeing him. so 10 minutes later he took it out but it was halfway in and felt like he really did cumed. so i was like i think you cumed and he said baby i didnt and he starting kissing on me, and he kept going down like he was trying to eat me out. so i left his head back up and we started tongue kissing again, my perious was suppose to come this week, but it didnt, and my tummy has been a little puffy from usual, what do i do?
should i break up with him? we been together for 2 years. && both madly in love, but then again i always had iiregular period, should i be worried?
oh if it helps 13/f, im in 8th grade
i wear a 34 b, && my body is pretty mature, && im 5'7 or 5'8, (link)
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Hey, Im not going to talk down to you like every person below me did. You want advice not to be judged, Like you i have made some decisions i shouldnt have and i payed the consequences, I know what it feels like. Maybe not this situation. But okay, Your thirteen, even though i dont agree with yelling at you like others have i do agree with what they said. You are only thirteen thats pretty younge to be having sex. But i dont know your life story or your story with your boyfriend. Like you said you two are madly in love. Then maybe you think your ready to have sex. Im not telling you your wrong. Im just telling you to stop and think about your future for a minute.....You can be something so great. But if you have sex something like this getting pregnant or getting an STD can hold you back from that. And your thirteen. Wait till highschool. Think about all those guys there maybe just maybe one day you and your boyfriend take a break and you swear you meet the right guy hes like the one. Youv been waiting for forever he makes you froget about this guy. Youl have nothing to look foward to with him. You already had the sexual expieriences its nothing new to you. Did you know in a poll 23% highschool relationships actually last? Your thirteen babe. im not sayings its not gonna work. Im just saying take this into consideration. Now about the whole pregnancy thing. I had a friends who had gone through the same thing your going through. Basically hun it is what it is. You just have to keep your head up high and hope for the best. Wait a week or two if you still havent gotten your period then go ahead and take a test. As of breaking up with him. I wouldnt say take it to that extreme. Just let him know your trust in him has gone down. And he now has to earn it back. Dont give up on him or anything you believe in. Stick up for yourself too. If worse comes to worse and you are pregnant. Dont let ANYONE put you down. Believe in yourself. Dont let anyone tell you who you are either, Im not much older then you. About 2 years older. And i know what its like to be called names. To the point you start believeing that you are that. Just dont believe your better off. Im sure you are a beautiful smart girl. The people below me dont know you. And dont know what its like to go through what you going through. Everyone has there reasons. So hold your head up high and be the best person you can be even through a time like this. When its all over just know its gonna make you a stronger person. Good Luck im gonna be praying for you and hoping everything is ok. And Let me know. ok thats it.
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Okay, thanks so much!
This really has an affect on my life.
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