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My name is Cali, and I've been told I am a good advice-giver.

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Ok, well, my 15th birthday's a week from friday, and me and my boyfriend were thinking about maybe having sex. [It will be my first time] I really want to, but, I'm afraid of regret. Do you think that if I lose it this young, I might regret it? And like, later in life, will guys judge me if I'm not a virgin? I just kinda wanted your opinion. I've seen some of the answers you've given people, and you just seem like you can maybe help me out. Thanks :]

I think that if you are unsure if you want to or not, it's best not to do it. When you lose your virginity, you should be very certain that it's the right time for you. You actually probably would regret it because you acted without being sure it was what you wanted to do. I don't know about guys judging you for now being a virgin as long as you aren't sleeping around with everyone.
-16/f

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