I used to be here long ago. Just kinda felt like making a profile for the oldschool-factor. I hand out unbiased, unadulterated advice. I am a Christian and I think anything otherwise would be unacceptable (that would be partiality and dishonesty). I do not give confirming evidence for people's suspicions simply because they want to hear it. Questions sex in particular do not appeal to me, so please don't beg me for the best way to arouse someone. I probably will not answer.
Gender: Male Location: Somewhere, US Occupation: MIS technical support, Gateway Family Services Member Since: December 6, 2007 Answers: 8 Last Update: December 6, 2007 Visitors: 3255
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sorry this question is going to sound weird but when you have sex what do you do during it? like does he just put it up there and you just both lie there while its happeneing or are u kissing during it and stuff? it just seems awkward. (link)
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If you haven't had it, please don't lose your virginity over it.
I'm a guy. And supposedly all we do is run around screwing girls over. Maybe that's true with some guys, but frankly that's a generalization.
It can be soft, it can be rough. I'm not entirely sure about particulars; I've never done it before. But I know enough to know this - it is an intensely pleasurable experience. I would say save it for when you're married, and only for the person you're married to. Unfortunately that's frowned upon in these parts, because we're strange conservative Christian extremists. Not necessarily. To be able to have a great sex life, it's absolutely essential to having a guy who cares about you and wants you to have all of him. It's that kind of care that allows you to have this intimate affair completely guitless and happy. He doesn't just "put it up there and you both just lie there," a man becomes a part of you at that point, putting his full trust in you and you in him. That's why I encourage you to put it for the guy you want to spend your life with - so he knows that you're all his. It's extremely intimate and it will feel incredibly good to be in each others' arms, kissing during the act, touching, etc. But I can't say it will be much fun when you've got a baby on the way if you are NOT married. It's just risky.
That said, it's amazing. But I'm waiting so I can show my girl that I'm hers, personally. :-D
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aww thats very sweet advicce...thanks:)
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