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Alright. Im 15. And I do know that right now is really early to start having sex. or whatever. But i feel really pressured. Everyone had girlfriends or boyfriends. And Im like the odd one out. And I feel like, whenever I do have a boyfriend, and I do refuse to have sex, they might breakup with me. Because right now is so sex realated. Everything is about sex. And more sex. Or "head".. I dont know. So Im thinking what is the worse thing that can happen if I do decide to have sex right now. I will just be up to date. And If i use a condom. Everything will be ok..??
And just so you know. Im not the one just to go find some dude and have sex with him. I will go through the regular process or whatever. and like wait like 3 months to start..but im still really iffy about the situation.??
I dont know. I just feel out. (link)
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You're right, everything nowadays IS about sex. We live in a very sex-saturated world. It's very hard not to feel the pressure to have sex when it seems everyone else is. I'm sure that you want to see what the big fuss is all about. Believe it or not though, not everyone is having sex. A lot more people claim to be having sex than actually are having sex - especially at your age people tend to exaggerate their sexual experience.
Now I'm not going to tell you what to do, but consider this: a couple of years from now you meet the guy of your dreams. You end up in a relationship with him for a prolonged period of time and everything feels right. It comes to the point in your relationship when you're both ready for sex. Would you regret the fact you lost it before you met him because you felt pressured to do it? Will you have wish you had waited for him (i.e. someone special) ? Ask yourselves these questions. Many people regret having sex at a young age because they were pressured and weren't ready for it. That, and it wasn't "meaningful"
Ultimately, it's up to you, only you can make this choice. Please do be careful (and safe about it) and make sure you don't do anything you will potentially regret. You only lose your virginity once afterall. Do it when it feels right to you regardless of what everyone else around you [appears!] to be doing.
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