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Q: Alright. Im 15. And I do know that right now is really early to start having sex. or whatever. But i feel really pressured. Everyone had girlfriends or boyfriends. And Im like the odd one out. And I feel like, whenever I do have a boyfriend, and I do refuse to have sex, they might breakup with me. Because right now is so sex realated. Everything is about sex. And more sex. Or "head".. I dont know. So Im thinking what is the worse thing that can happen if I do decide to have sex right now. I will just be up to date. And If i use a condom. Everything will be ok..??
And just so you know. Im not the one just to go find some dude and have sex with him. I will go through the regular process or whatever. and like wait like 3 months to start..but im still really iffy about the situation.??

I dont know. I just feel out.
just because your friends are having sex doesnt mean you should. I had sex at a young age and regret it. The guy isnt with me now and i gave something valuable to him. I suggest you wait till you feel your ready not anyone else. I cant make choices for you but saving yourself for the right guy is what i think you should do. Dont just look for a guy you find attractive and have sex with him 3 months after make sure the relationship is commited and you feel like both of ya can grow from this. If a guy breaks up with you for you not wanting to have sex it only proves thats all he wanted. If you do end up having sex make sure its with a condom so you dont end up either pregnant or with any diseases. Everyones experience with sex is different but the worst that can happen is that you end up pregnant, since condoms arent always 100%.

Thank you.!
I think with you advice. I will prob wait for a while [maybe when im 16 or 17]. and even in a relationship wait a year. Or until i feel entirely comfortable with the person to start.

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