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Hey I'm Kerry :)
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Chavs. (the ones that stereotype me. Crying. When my friends are upset.When i dont feel good.Beans.Nasty People. Backstabbers.

So yeah :)

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advice

recently ive been gettin pretty involved with this boy i like no only physically but also emotionally we have been a thing for a couple months now but he hasnt made it official he talks to and seems to flirt with alot of girls which worries me that im being played i talked to him about it but he said im the only one he likes and he wants to be with me but i still dont understand and im really worried im going to end up in heartache becuase we havent really made any progress please help me out what should i do? do you think im being played?

Everyone is different. Your boy may be genuine in the fact that he likes you, even if he does flirt with others. Some people flirt naturally and it may mean no harm.

There always is on the other hand.

You should talk to him and tell him whats on your mind without accusing him.

Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we're making slow progress because we don't want to rush things and regret it.

You should try to focus on enjoying his company more than anything.

When you do finally try and have a chat, you need to focus on his answers and his body language. If he dismisses the topic, he isnt worth your time.

And about trhe progress, he may be really shy but you also need to have a nice chat about that. you could maybe ask him what his relationship technique is, like does he like to take things slow? if he does, thats okay, you's both just need to be comfortable and respect each others wishes.

Good luck :)

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(Rating: 5) that was really good advice you really put things into perspective thank you
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